Eph 5:18 And do not be drunk with wine, in which is dissipation; but be filled with the Spirit
In speaking of wisdom, Paul gives a few examples of how we should walk in it. Wisdom seeks to make good judgements with sober minds driven by a spirit filled life (vs 18).
Wisdom seeks to encourage and make the heart glad rather than miserable, vs. 19 speaking to one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord,
Wisdom acknowledges, appreciates and dwells on strengths rather than weakness, vs. 20 giving thanks always for all things to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ,
Wisdom seeks the betterment of the other than ones own self , vs. 21 submitting to one another in the fear of God.
Biblical wisdom provide tools for marriage growth, it provides skills to navigate through the icebergs of life. Pro 24:3, “Through wisdom a house is built, And by understanding it is established”. In the days of evil as we live in, wisdom is the key for temperament and action. Therefore do not be foolish but, understand what is the will of God and strive according to His working to 1. Walk in love, 2. Walk in the light & 3. Walk in wisdom.